AP source: Red Sox, Valentine agree to terms

By JIMMY GOLEN | November 30, 2011 | 4:41 PM EST

FILE - In this June 9, 1999, file photo, New York Mets manager Bobby Valentine wears a fake mustache and glasses in the dugout after he was ejected in the 12th inning of a baseball game against the Toronto Blue Jays in this image made from television in New York. A person familiar with the negotiations says the Boston Red Sox have agreed to terms with Bobby Valentine on a contract that will make him the team's new manager. Valentine returned from a trip to Japan on Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2011 and is expected to be introduced at Fenway Park on Thursday, said the person, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because the deal had not yet been signed. (AP Photo/ESPN, File

BOSTON (AP) — Players eating fried chicken and drinking beer in the clubhouse during games. If it didn't bother Bobby Valentine as a baseball lifer, it would certainly offend his sensibilities as a self-proclaimed gourmet chef.

"He won't let that happen. There's no way he's going to let that happen," said Tommy Lasorda, Valentine's manager in the minor leagues and a mentor who encouraged him to try for the Red Sox job.

"There's times — in all phases of life — when you've got to kick them in the (rear) when they need it, and there's times when you need to hug them if they need it. Your livelihood depends on those guys. You've got to have them in the right frame of mind, to be loyal to the organization, to put forth all the effort that they have."

Valentine has agreed to terms with the Red Sox to become the team's new manager, a person familiar with the negotiations told The Associated Press on Wednesday. A news conference to introduce Valentine is expected on Thursday, according to the person, who spoke on the condition of anonymity because the deal had not been signed.

The former New York Mets and Texas Rangers manager replaces Terry Francona, who left after eight years in which he guided the Red Sox to two World Series titles but also the biggest September collapse in baseball history. Valentine was hired to revive a team that has missed the playoffs two straight years and reverse a culture in which players ate takeout fried chicken and drank beer in the clubhouse during games instead of sitting on the bench with their teammates.

Francona let his players police themselves and never said anything negative about them in public. When he was in New York, Valentine at times criticized his players and bickered with them, his boss and the media.

"You give loyalty, you'll get it back. You give love, you'll get it back," Lasorda said. "And that's the way it has to be."

The Red Sox let Francona go after a 7-20 September left them out of the playoffs for the second straight season, one game behind AL wild-card winner Tampa Bay. Francona said the clubhouse needed a different voice.

And, boy, is Valentine ever different.

A restaurateur who claims to have invented the wrap sandwich; a high school star in football and baseball; a two-time minor-league MVP; the son-in-law of former major leaguer Ralph Branca; the manager of the NL pennant-winning New York Mets and Japanese champion Chiba Lotte Marines; the director of health and public safety in Stamford, Conn.; purveyor of an athletic training facility; a successful TV analyst.

Valentine's resume is long.

And it has one major gap: He's never won a World Series.